Summer
Passage
By
Kenna McHugh
“It
was a splendid summer morning and it seemed as if nothing could go wrong.” John
Cheever
One
early summer morning, when I was nine years old, I had my first unexpected lesson
about the birds and the bees. When I was young, kids went outside and played in
the neighborhood. Today, with the overscheduling of kids and dangers that lurk
around us, these aimless mornings seem like a thing of the past.
“Let’s
go fence walking. It’s still so early. It’s the perfect time,” I whispered to
my older brother. Two years seemed a big gap back then and he was pretty much
in charge. Fence walking is when we would take short cuts through neighbors’
yards to get to a friend’s house to play or say hello. Not every neighbor
wanted children cutting through their yards so there was a little thrill to not
getting caught.
My
brother thought for a moment. “We can walk the fences to Randy’s house, and he
can walk back to our house.”
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Our dog,
Tami was scratching and whining at the sliding glass, refusing to be ignored or
left behind. “Shh, quiet… you, stupid dog,” my brother said. Then, he looked at
me. “She’s going to wake up the whole neighborhood. We’ll have to bring her.
Fence walking is out. Let’s go.” My brother grabbed her leash and we set off.
“To
the park?”
Tami
was straining, pulling us toward the park. The sun was quietly starting to shine
on the horizon, but we didn’t experience any moment of serenity because Tami was
dragging us behind her.
I
looked at my brother, “I’ve never seen her so excited.”
She pulled
us to a house we didn’t know. Tami fixed her eyes on the house and barked. We
heard a loud bark from the backyard, then a dog suddenly leapt over the fence
and came running at us. We were so startled that we took off running. Tami
pulled us to stop a couple of times, but my brother yanked the leash, pulling
her along.
The other
dog caught up to us and before we knew it, the two dogs were locked butt to
butt. My brother yanked and yanked, but
we couldn’t pull them apart. We had
never seen anything like it. My brother pulled and pulled on the leash, but he just
couldn’t get Tami free.
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Finally,
they came unlocked, and we went home. Our mother was up, and we told her what
happened.
“Oh
no…Tami is going to have puppies.”
Two
months or so later, my brother and I sat together and watched Tami give birth
to 5 puppies.
Looking
back, I was fortunate to be able to learn about life as it opened up to me. I
hope the same scenario can unfold for my children. That they can learn a life
lesson naturally, and, without anyone scheduling it in. But, I do need to be
aware of their safety while giving them enough freedom in the summer for these
opportunities to occur in their lives.
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